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2) Mutual friends
start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the
cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or
girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating
husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from
you.
4) Sets up a new
e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
5) He leaves the
house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in
the evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym
and begins a rigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell
phone and doesn't let you know.
8) He sets up a
separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating
husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete
all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
11) Deletes all
incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
12) He becomes
"accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out
of guilt.
13) Raises
hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to
love more than one person at a time?"
14) He buys himself
new underwear.
15) He insists the
child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
16) The cheating wife
stops wearing her wedding ring.
17) Has a sudden
desire to be helpful with the laundry.
18) Has unexplained
scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
19) Suddenly wants to
try new love techniques.
20) He/she fairly
suddenly stops having sex with you.
21) He/she suddenly
wants more sex, more often.
22) Supposedly works
a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
23) Picks fights in
order to stomp out of the house.
24) You find out by
accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from
work - but supposedly worked on those days.
25) Shows a sudden
interest in a different type of music.
26) Spouse's
co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
27) Has a sudden
preoccupation with his or her appearance.
28) Spends an
excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you
have gone to bed.
29) He throws up a
lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat
the dinner you prepared when he got home.
30) Your spouse is
away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
31) His/her clothes
smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick
on your husband's shirt.
32) The amount of
money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
33) You find items of
intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not
give your spouse.
34) Your spouse seems
less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to
anger.
35) You get calls
where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
36) He/she loses
attention in the activities in the home.
37) Your intuition
(gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
38) He/she has a
definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
39) She uses a low
voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
40) She has a "glow"
about her.
41) Atypical erratic
behavior.
42) He sneaks out of
the house.
43) She sleeps with
her purse by the bed.
44) She goes to the
store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
45) He tells you that
you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.
46) The telltale sign
of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first
place
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